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Alyssa79 Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:16 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:16 PM

so i lost another BM.......

i feel sad on this one but there's nothing i can do. she's preggo and is due the week before my wedding so it's too much of a risk/chance so she dropped out.

i'm still going to include her on my program and everything and with the planning but man this *****.

i am down to 3!

sugarnspice Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:16 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:16 PM

Re: so i lost another BM.......

im free

ETA i figured it was only fair to offer since i offered to be Kris's flower girl

in reality though, atleast this is a good reason and if possible, she will still be there with you

FutureMrsSoltan Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:17 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:17 PM

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awww im sorry alyssa !!

Becca2010 Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:18 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:18 PM

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Awww that stinks, but it's for the best...

I volunteer to be a BM!!

FutureMrsK10110 Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:18 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:18 PM

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I know how you feel. I've lost 2 but I've since gotten one back.

20mrsc10 Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:18 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:18 PM

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im so sorry!!!
i think that's one of the hardest things about planning so far in advance..
my cousin was supposed to be a part, but she got preggo and wont be able to come now

Yankees2323 Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:20 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:20 PM

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sorry alyssa!!! if you need an extra let m,e know lol...

Alyssa79 Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:21 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:21 PM

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you girls are awesome

kris_gets_hitched Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:24 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:24 PM

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Aww, that stinks...completely understandable circumstance though. A lot of times when girls lose BMs, they also lose their friend, you know?

MikesBride2B Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:29 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:29 PM

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Like Kris said, at least it was for a happy thing and not a 'fck you, lady!!' thing.

Am I her size? I'll step in for her

es2189 Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:31 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:31 PM

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i'm sorry!!! at least you can have a whole bunch of new bridesmaids, though!!

AngnShaun Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:31 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:31 PM

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Sorry Alyssa!!!! That stinks, at least it was on good terms!!!

MarjorieFrank Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:37 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:37 PM

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I'm sorry... that su cks... I have 3 BMs too, we can commiserate together lol

NYYankeeGirl72 Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:38 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:38 PM

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I know honey this was weighing heavy on your mind, but at least she told you now. It totally s*ucks. And I am so sorry that you are feeling sad........

but think of it this way....it just happens to be that she thought about the situation at hand and realized that it might be best to drop out, so as to not cause any stress to herself and to you. You including her still in the planning, will demonstrate to her that you really care. On that day, she will still be there for you and celebrating with you. That I think is the most important thing to remember.

futuremrsjc2010 Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:46 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 12:46 PM

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I'm sorry you lost 2 BM's I know how you feel b/c im on the verge of losing one

Kimbiz1 Posted: Nov 21, 2009 01:42 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 01:42 PM

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Alyssa,

If your BM dresses are anything like your outfit last night, I'll stand in for her!!!!!

marinai7 Posted: Nov 21, 2009 01:45 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 01:45 PM

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JoanneAndJustin Posted: Nov 21, 2009 03:52 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 03:52 PM

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Awwww...........

I'm so sorry, chica!

I'd be happy to fill in!

CarolAnn721 Posted: Nov 21, 2009 03:54 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 03:54 PM

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I am available on 6/10 and have about 18 bm dresses from weddings past. LOL

JC297 Posted: Nov 21, 2009 04:19 PM+

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Posted: Nov 21, 2009 04:19 PM

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Alyssa it was the best thing for her to do. She can still be apart of your day if shes feeling up to it. I'm sure you can find something special for her to do.