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Overwhelmed with one month to go?

Calysta Posted: Nov 04, 2009 07:15 PM+

Calysta MEMBER SINCE: 7/08 TOTAL POSTS : 41 WEDDING DATE: Dec 04, 2009

Posted: Nov 04, 2009 07:15 PM

Overwhelmed with one month to go?

I have exactly one month until the wedding and it feels completely overwhelming -- so many details, nerves starting to build, etc.

Fiance and I bicker constantly, and I'm becoming emotional over everything.

Brides with 4 weeks to go -- are you feeling the same way?

whtevjenny Posted: Nov 04, 2009 07:45 PM+

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Posted: Nov 04, 2009 07:45 PM

Re: Overwhelmed with one month to go?

I've got three days to go and for sure, things are heightened. You're normal to be feeling this way!

coldasice217 Posted: Nov 04, 2009 07:47 PM+

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Posted: Nov 04, 2009 07:47 PM

Re: Overwhelmed with one month to go?

Uh, YES. Plus we're moving during this last month left too. It's pandemonium. Today I didn't feel so great so I 'took the night off', but this will probably be the last night I have that luxury to take a shower and lay in bed by 8:00.

JamDancer Posted: Nov 04, 2009 07:49 PM+

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Posted: Nov 04, 2009 07:49 PM

Re: Overwhelmed with one month to go?

it will all work out, I promise. That is normal. about 2 days before I was strangely calm and totally relaxed, it was so weird!! and you know what, evrything went beyond what I ever dreamed and we had a ton of fun. it will come together!!

geegee827 Posted: Nov 04, 2009 08:08 PM+

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Posted: Nov 04, 2009 08:08 PM

Re: Overwhelmed with one month to go?

I would say the last 3 weeks have been a roller coaster ride of emotions. With 10 days left, I'm exhausted, cranky, overly sensitive and have moments where I can't stand FH or anyone in my family and just feel like telling everyone to shut the eff up!!!

I know it will all get better and this too shall pass.

greeneyed bride Posted: Nov 04, 2009 09:20 PM+

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Posted: Nov 04, 2009 09:20 PM

Re: Overwhelmed with one month to go?

It started a few weeks ago and has been a steady nervous tension ever since. I just feel weird......like Acutely aware that MY WHOLE LIFE AND EVERYTHING I HAVE EVER KNOWN IS ABOUT TO CHANGE!!!!AAAHHHH....

Shew. I feel better now. Believe me I am happy for the changes, and expect to be deliriously happy that day, but in the mean time I am a bit mental.

ChrissyV729 Posted: Nov 04, 2009 09:25 PM+

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Posted: Nov 04, 2009 09:25 PM

Re: Overwhelmed with one month to go?

YAY ... A date twin !!!!! I am definitly geting a nervous but really trying to wrap up everything in the next two weeks so I can take time to relax and not stress.

Calysta Posted: Nov 05, 2009 12:17 PM+

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Posted: Nov 05, 2009 12:17 PM

Re: Overwhelmed with one month to go?

Thanks, guys! I feel better knowing there are others as crazy as I am right now. My sister and FH have started to call me Bridezilla, which is a bit irksome, but I've decided to let my Type A personality fly and just roll with it.

I'm also planning a big event for work and dieting/working out like crazy to fit into the dress so I think I'm just on overload.