The Shower Drama Continues with my crappy BM's

Last week I posted that my BM's weren't willing to contribute what my MOH was asking of them ($200). The drama continues. My MOH is trying to compromise with them and see what they feel comfortable with. They say $100/each.

I shouldn't be angry because I know things are rough for everyone but I know that 1 BM in particular is VERY well off and shes the one giving my MOH the biggest issue.

I just want to cry and say screw the shower if no one wants to contribute towards it

their dress is cheap. i bought their shoes and doj and they dont have to pay for hair or m/u.

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I'm sorry you have to go through that! That stinks!

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thats awful... considering what they dont have to pay for i dont think $200 is a lot to ask

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im probably being bridezilla with this lol

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o wow. that's some craziness. there is always one girl who has to cause a fuss.

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sorry hun.. $200 is nada especially since u paid for their shoes and they dont have t pay for hair/ mu too

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Posted by Soon2bShea

im probably being bridezilla with this lol

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I do not think your being a bzilla at all. ur bms are not paying for all that much hope this works its self out soon!

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Yikes! I think that's horrible, especially since you're doing so much for them. I would say give your MOH another list of close friends that may be willing to pitch in (If I wasn't in a close friend's wedding, I'd still help out) and consider this a lesson learned with those 'friends' of yours.

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have your MOH explain that to them. that YOU paid for all the all the other stuff it shouldn't be a problem

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I definitely do NOT think you're being a bridezilla. If I remember correctly, you mentioned that they're established except for one bc she is a little younger. They can very well save up for it, I mean they've known about this since you asked them to be BM. I'm so sorry that they're being unreasonable!!

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i dont think ur being a bridezilla at all!! they agreed to be in ur BP, they're ur friends.....IMHO they should be happy that ur being so nice and paying for all their hair and makeup...and shoes. i would be!!! i dont know what i'll be able to pay for when it comes to my BMs...

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They are being a bunch of big meanies!! I am so sorry your going through this when you shouldn't be!!

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my bridesmaids aren't contributing money for my shower..only my matron of honor and my mom are paying for it

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aww i'm sorry....i think its really nice of your MOH to compromise with them. the only thing i will say about the bm who is well off that is giving her a hard time, people who talk about money don't necessarily have it, so maybe she is having financial issues right now.

just a suggestion, maybe you can email the girls asking them to contribute whatever they can or maybe they help with decorations, invitations, favors, etc.

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Posted by Soon2bShea

im probably being bridezilla with this lol

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i disagree! you bought them all that other stuff that they don't have to spend money on!! that's not what a bridezilla would do!

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yeah i def disagree about being a bridezilla... you bought them all of that stuff and they can't contribute more than 100?? jeez.. you def aren't in the wrong.

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I'm sorry that your going through this

none of my bp paid for my shower or my mom for that matter and I had to jump start all of the planning, so I kind of feel your pain

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Do BM's usually contribute to the shower?? Mine aren't and I didn't ask when my sister got married. Should my sister be asking them to?

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im sorry, sound slike theyre a tad bit unappreciative, you did help with them by picking less expensive dress buying their shoes and doj and they know the responsibilites of being in a bp and if your asked to even be a bm its usually because youre close to that person so youd think theyd want to contribute and make your shower awesome, sorry im like angry for you, thats just plain out ridiculous, honeslty if it was me i would tell them straigh tout that you understand everyones financial situations are different but being that youre not made of money either it would be nice for them to contribute as you have to them hope it works out hun