the fact that i am now officially able to say 'i'm getting married next month' hit me like a ton of bricks last night.

I'm very excited but I am oh so overwhelmed. Little things keep going wrong and I turn them into a huge deal because I'm an emotional mess! I hate making decisions and everytime we finalize/ pick something I have anxiety about it for days, it is such a ridiculous quality I have. I definetly worry way to much about what everyone else thinks and my fiance is the total opposite of my neurotic self that he really can't understand what the big deal is with everything and he's right! Does everyone go through this? I feel like everyone else I know who got married before was way more in calm than me. What do u ladies do to relax with everything?

Re: the fact that i am now officially able to say 'i'm getting married next month' hit me like a ton of bricks last night.

I am going through this right now lol! I just want everything done and I feel like none of my vendors let me finish everything. I am just exhausted from all of these appointments...

Re: the fact that i am now officially able to say 'i'm getting married next month' hit me like a ton of bricks last night.

Didnt sleep well last night for this same reason...it is finally hitting me! I can;t believe how much there is to do and how little time there is left! Agh!

Re: the fact that i am now officially able to say 'i'm getting married next month' hit me like a ton of bricks last night.

It sounds to me like you and your fiance are a perfect match and a perfect balance! How you both deal with stress is very important to see how your relationship will be during more difficult times in your life in the future (albeit few and far between).

I'm not going to sit here and advise you not to stress, because that's in your nature and wouldn't be helpful. What I will say is that you've already made thousands of decisions relating to your wedding, and all of them are the right ones. You're not going to stop choosing the best at this point! By now, you are on such a roll that you should try to feel confident that the last bunch of decisions you make in the next 6 weeks are absolutely the right ones, too!

We all definitely go through this sort of anxiety, but some of us dwell on it and others let it roll right off. You'll get to a point where you'll be in the middle of that. If you can, instead of getting to be a wreck on the outside, start making + and = lists about each decision right after you make it (or right before) if you're unsure about it.

You'll find that you're making great decisions which should boost your confidence!

Feel better, and remember you can always turn to all of us for advice & a boost!!!!!!!!!!! :::BIG HUGS:::

Re: the fact that i am now officially able to say 'i'm getting married next month' hit me like a ton of bricks last night.

I think it's normal.

Re: the fact that i am now officially able to say 'i'm getting married next month' hit me like a ton of bricks last night.

YAY! This is so exciting girls! July is going to be a great month for us!

Re: the fact that i am now officially able to say 'i'm getting married next month' hit me like a ton of bricks last night.

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Posted by springsandra

It sounds to me like you and your fiance are a perfect match and a perfect balance! How you both deal with stress is very important to see how your relationship will be during more difficult times in your life in the future (albeit few and far between).

I'm not going to sit here and advise you not to stress, because that's in your nature and wouldn't be helpful. What I will say is that you've already made thousands of decisions relating to your wedding, and all of them are the right ones. You're not going to stop choosing the best at this point! By now, you are on such a roll that you should try to feel confident that the last bunch of decisions you make in the next 6 weeks are absolutely the right ones, too!

We all definitely go through this sort of anxiety, but some of us dwell on it and others let it roll right off. You'll get to a point where you'll be in the middle of that. If you can, instead of getting to be a wreck on the outside, start making + and = lists about each decision right after you make it (or right before) if you're unsure about it.

You'll find that you're making great decisions which should boost your confidence!

Feel better, and remember you can always turn to all of us for advice & a boost!!!!!!!!!!! :::BIG HUGS:::[/QUOTE

thank you