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You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????
NikkiR515 Posted: Mar 02, 2009 09:59 AM+
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You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????

I AM SO MAD RIGHT NOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

It was stressed to me that today is the most important day work wise and we have strict deadlines from Paris and no matter WHAT, we HAVE to be in... So why is it that a) every single big boss is NOT here and b) Out of the 4 'little people' who are supposed to be doing the work, I am the ONLY ONE HERE!!!!!!!!! I left fh who is home with the flu, walked to the train and got soaking wet to do everyone else's work?????????? I can't believe I left my poor FH who has a fever and will probably have to take himself to the doc in this snow behind so I can come here...The worst part is I don't even have anyone to let know I am leaving because I am the only person here!!! If the snow keeps falling, I am leaving early.. It's obvious no one else cares about this place so why should I??? (ESPECIALLY since I get paid the least out of them all and have the least training and barely know what I am doing!!!!!!) Okay. very ANNOYED vent over!!!
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MaggieLuvsJoe Posted: Mar 02, 2009 10:02 AM+
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Re: You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????

I would gather my things and go home. If the boss' don't care then why should you stay there. Go home to FH
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valthom426 Posted: Mar 02, 2009 10:03 AM+
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Re: You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????

Get out of there it's clearly not THAT important. Go enjoy your day off.
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MrsJuneB2B Posted: Mar 02, 2009 10:05 AM+
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Re: You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????


Posted by MaggieLuvsJoe

I would gather my things and go home. If the boss' don't care then why should you stay there. Go home to FH



ITA!! screw that!
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coldasice217 Posted: Mar 02, 2009 10:46 AM+
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Re: You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????

Ridiculous! I had to shovel out of my own driveway because my entire family was asleep, and come to work, only to find that the big strapping men called out, including one who literally lives behind the office. We shamed him at least to come, but still.

I'm soaked, I'm cold, and I'm depressed. I do not want to be here right now. I feel your pain...if you can, go home!
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LeeAnne Posted: Mar 02, 2009 10:48 AM+
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Re: You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????

go home nikki!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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WishfulRinne Posted: Mar 02, 2009 10:49 AM+
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Re: You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????

I would be mad too! Go home...do whatever work you can and then leave!
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MrsGRod09 Posted: Mar 02, 2009 10:51 AM+
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Re: You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????

I'm so sorry i would leave too if no one else cares then why should you. If the bosses ask i would say i had to take my FH to the hospital.
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Brat23 Posted: Mar 02, 2009 10:52 AM+
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Re: You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????

Ugh how aggrivating! I would leave!
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littlepixie12 Posted: Mar 02, 2009 12:25 PM+
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Re: You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????

OMG! did anyone else come in yet?
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gina409 Posted: Mar 02, 2009 12:29 PM+
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Re: You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????

that is total bs!!!!!! i would get up and leave right now...leave a notr saying i didnt get the memo everyone had off
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allegracristina Posted: Mar 02, 2009 12:30 PM+
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Re: You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????

F that S Nikki!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! GO home to your man!!!! F these people!!
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grkbarbie Posted: Mar 02, 2009 12:43 PM+
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Re: You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????

if i were u, id stay and do as much work as possible...at your own pace of course..

the times we're in now, where every1 is getting fired... its good that u came in and no1 else did. this is the perfect opportunity to shine...

and best of all.. u can also shove it in their faces


JMO!
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FinallyMrsB18 Posted: Mar 02, 2009 12:45 PM+
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Re: You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????

That is exactly how I sound on many a day in my office. I am so sorry. I can't do it anymore. I do what is expected of me, and no extra. No late night, no early mornings. They pay me the least to, and I am not working for free. I will never again put my DH second to my work. Family is my number one priority now no matter what. That is all that matters. Jobs come and go.
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NikkiR515 Posted: Mar 02, 2009 01:48 PM+
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Re: You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????

Thanks girls.. One of my bosses actually came in (at like 11) even though she is really sick! She said she only came becuase she knew I would be the only person who would come through and she didn't want to leave me stranded.. We are both leaving at 2:15 now... I guess in a way it worked out.. I get to leave early and at least one of my bosses recognized that I actually came in when everyone else couldn't be bothered! Thanks again for the advice girls!!!
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KerriJohnS Posted: Mar 02, 2009 01:57 PM+
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Re: You gotta be EFFING KIDDING ME???????????

Oh WOW that does suck!

And it looks as though you have some crappy boses as well! I mean ANY boss who leads by....'Do as I say, not as I do' is absolute CRAP in my book. If they are too precious to get out of their house and drag their a$$es into work... then why should you have to?

I'm right there with you Nikki. Any chance of you saying something about it to them? I think I would!
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