Re: Anyone else have wedding day "issues" they can't get over?

we may want to look in to that.....at least we would all understand each other's pain!

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my dad really got under my skin right before the ceremony. he was supposed to keep me calm and instead made things worse. it's sorta changed our relationship....still my dad, so what can you right?

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maybe im crazy but i dont see what youre seeing with your hair. i think you look great!

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Posted by Aug07OFCbride

maybe im crazy but i dont see what youre seeing with your hair. i think you look great!

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Posted by Aug07OFCbride

maybe im crazy but i dont see what youre seeing with your hair. i think you look great!

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Thank you...and DH and my mother have already told me I'm the crazy one...

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Re: Anyone else have wedding day "issues" they can't get over?

your hair looks lovely. perhaps if we saw the trial we'd say on day of it wasn't as nice . . . but w/o your mentioning being unhappy with it, I'd never know it wasn't what you wanted. Look at your pics again and be happy with them, remember the occasion, not the hair.

my tiara went askew when she was pinning it and she never really got it truly straight but it looks ok and everyone thinks our pics are great and I do too. if that's the worst that happens . . .

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Posted by oldladybride

Look at your pics again and be happy with them, remember the occasion, not the hair.
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I have NO pictures with the kids ...not just any kids but MY kids .......................

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I still cant get over that my gay friends stormed out because my father is a HOMOPHOBE. I just cant get over the fact that he couldnt put his pride to the side on a day that was supposed to be MY day. An unselfish person would have bit their tongue no matter what happened just so they wouldnt cause trouble and try to ruin a perfect day. I also wish they would have at least tried to keep it a secret from me until after the wedding.

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Posted by Songstress

I still cant get over that my gay friends stormed out because my father is a HOMOPHOBE. I just cant get over the fact that he couldnt put his pride to the side on a day that was supposed to be MY day. An unselfish person would have bit their tongue no matter what happened just so they wouldnt cause trouble and try to ruin a perfect day. I also wish they would have at least tried to keep it a secret from me until after the wedding.

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just that my darn $90 aisle runner wasnt put out by the RH. Christine from EAP made me feel better by using it on the cake table. Other than that, I have no complaints.

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Posted by Songstress

I still cant get over that my gay friends stormed out because my father is a HOMOPHOBE. I just cant get over the fact that he couldnt put his pride to the side on a day that was supposed to be MY day. An unselfish person would have bit their tongue no matter what happened just so they wouldnt cause trouble and try to ruin a perfect day. I also wish they would have at least tried to keep it a secret from me until after the wedding.

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wow he said something to them?

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i was crying the other night while looking at someone else's wedding pics that they posted. They were gorgeous and a lot more professional than our pics look. Plus it rained alllllll day on our wedding day, and that still upsets me as well. I feel that our photographer didn't take half the amount that he would have, had we be able to go outside. We have a few nice pics just outside the doors of the RH and it looks so nice with all of the flowers and greenery. But most of the pics are inside, dark and the background is not pretty. Wow, i guess i do have post-wedding issues! I know you can't control the weather, but when the few days before and after your wedding are such beautiful sunny days, i can't help but give the finger to mother nature!

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I dont ever really let it drive me crazy... just when the question comes up, i of course have things to say..

1) we got married at JT and never made it to even SEE the cocktail hour...unfortanate time mishap - but everyone raved about it and i never even got to see it let alone taste the food.

2) would've left my veil on the entire reception..my mom told me too - i was adament about taking it off after dinner...it looks so pretty in pictures. oh well :(

4) i didn't really want many traditional shots...but now i wish i would've atleast gotten a few! i think i have all of 2 of my entire dress.

3) the sides of my hair were pulled to tight..in some pictures it looks gorgous, but in shots where my veil is off it just looks really odd. pisses me off.

5) saying hello to guests...wish we would've done it at the CH, or in some other way that didn't take up so much dancing time..i remember songs coming on & saying "OOOH but i want to DANCE to this!"

6) wish i would've danced with my brothers when the videographer & photographer were still there...i didn't dedicate a song to them untill the very end of the night..not a huge deal 'cause it'll always be a memory for me, but...ya know..it would've been nice.

7) wish i would've kissed my new hubby like we said we would for our first kiss! i all of a sudden was like "what? i can't kiss him with ANY tongue up here!" ..wish i woulda - not a makeup session..but..ya know - just a little it was our first kiss and what other people thought should not have been a thought in my head! i had also reapplied my lipgloss just prior to the ceremony so it was a tad sticky.. so now my memory is a hesitant sticky kiss lol.

i'm sure i could think of others...but oh well. it's done and over with! just know that ur not the only one!

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ps: I feel ya on the hair thing 'cause like i said in my above post, i had a little issue with mine.. i saw the picture u posted of ur hair & then took a peek at ur albums and saw all ur "hair idea" photos... i think ur hair looked beautiful, but i can see what u really wanted & how it looked different. U wanted the curls to sit up higher so the headpiece was around them right?? it was a little different...but IT STILL LOOKED BEAUTIFUL! so dont let it drive u crazy!

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Posted by Songstress

I still cant get over that my gay friends stormed out because my father is a HOMOPHOBE. I just cant get over the fact that he couldnt put his pride to the side on a day that was supposed to be MY day. An unselfish person would have bit their tongue no matter what happened just so they wouldnt cause trouble and try to ruin a perfect day. I also wish they would have at least tried to keep it a secret from me until after the wedding.

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wow he said something to them?

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Yeah, He told them they cant show affection and its inappropriate and they were making everyone uncomfortable. For him to say that was out of line. They were MY friends and I invited them. They shouldnt have felt like they couldnt show affection at a wedding. Some of my family members really disappointed me acting like we were back in the 20's or something. It just made me realize how selfish people can be and even at a wedding, they make it about themselves somehow. I think about what happened a lot and hate that I have to associate that with my wedding day. I even started crying at the dais. It was awkward.

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I have two. The main one is our DJ forgot to have my dad give a toast. We didn't even realize it till the next day when my dad read it to DH and I. Thinking about it now I want to cry. I should have realized it. And now I dont have that on video. it kinda makes me sick now that I dont have that. It was an honest mistake and had I noticed, it wouldnt have been an issue. I just got so wrapped up in the hecticness of the wedding that i didn't think about it.

Another thing is we forgot to request a portrait be taken of me in the same way my grandmas was taken- so to show off my dress and because it was her dress.

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I still cant get over that my gay friends stormed out because my father is a HOMOPHOBE. I just cant get over the fact that he couldnt put his pride to the side on a day that was supposed to be MY day. An unselfish person would have bit their tongue no matter what happened just so they wouldnt cause trouble and try to ruin a perfect day. I also wish they would have at least tried to keep it a secret from me until after the wedding.

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wow he said something to them?

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Yeah, He told them they cant show affection and its inappropriate and they were making everyone uncomfortable. For him to say that was out of line. They were MY friends and I invited them. They shouldnt have felt like they couldnt show affection at a wedding. Some of my family members really disappointed me acting like we were back in the 20's or something. It just made me realize how selfish people can be and even at a wedding, they make it about themselves somehow. I think about what happened a lot and hate that I have to associate that with my wedding day. I even started crying at the dais. It was awkward.

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wow it ***** your friends had to go through that when they were there to share in your day and have a good time.

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Posted by jennandrolo

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Posted by jennandrolo

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Posted by Songstress

I still cant get over that my gay friends stormed out because my father is a HOMOPHOBE. I just cant get over the fact that he couldnt put his pride to the side on a day that was supposed to be MY day. An unselfish person would have bit their tongue no matter what happened just so they wouldnt cause trouble and try to ruin a perfect day. I also wish they would have at least tried to keep it a secret from me until after the wedding.

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wow he said something to them?

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Yeah, He told them they cant show affection and its inappropriate and they were making everyone uncomfortable. For him to say that was out of line. They were MY friends and I invited them. They shouldnt have felt like they couldnt show affection at a wedding. Some of my family members really disappointed me acting like we were back in the 20's or something. It just made me realize how selfish people can be and even at a wedding, they make it about themselves somehow. I think about what happened a lot and hate that I have to associate that with my wedding day. I even started crying at the dais. It was awkward.

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wow it ***** your friends had to go through that when they were there to share in your day and have a good time.

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its def sad they ahd to go through that, but they should have just let it go and went on with the evening so not to upset you. it was selfish on both parties to do that- sorry it happened!!!

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I should have worn a cathedral length veil-the pics look so good with one!

I should have also put duct tape over my BIL/BM's mouth so he wouldn't have made such an appalling speech!

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Posted by GinaZ

I have two. The main one is our DJ forgot to have my dad give a toast. We didn't even realize it till the next day when my dad read it to DH and I. Thinking about it now I want to cry. I should have realized it. And now I dont have that on video. it kinda makes me sick now that I dont have that. It was an honest mistake and had I noticed, it wouldnt have been an issue. I just got so wrapped up in the hecticness of the wedding that i didn't think about it.

Another thing is we forgot to request a portrait be taken of me in the same way my grandmas was taken- so to show off my dress and because it was her dress.

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Posted by Mich0621

I should have also put duct tape over my BIL/BM's mouth so he wouldn't have made such an appalling speech!

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Posted by Songstress

I still cant get over that my gay friends stormed out because my father is a HOMOPHOBE. I just cant get over the fact that he couldnt put his pride to the side on a day that was supposed to be MY day. An unselfish person would have bit their tongue no matter what happened just so they wouldnt cause trouble and try to ruin a perfect day. I also wish they would have at least tried to keep it a secret from me until after the wedding.

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wow he said something to them?

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Yeah, He told them they cant show affection and its inappropriate and they were making everyone uncomfortable. For him to say that was out of line. They were MY friends and I invited them. They shouldnt have felt like they couldnt show affection at a wedding. Some of my family members really disappointed me acting like we were back in the 20's or something. It just made me realize how selfish people can be and even at a wedding, they make it about themselves somehow. I think about what happened a lot and hate that I have to associate that with my wedding day. I even started crying at the dais. It was awkward.

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wow it ***** your friends had to go through that when they were there to share in your day and have a good time.

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its def sad they ahd to go through that, but they should have just let it go and went on with the evening so not to upset you. it was selfish on both parties to do that- sorry it happened!!!

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I agree. Im mad that they stormed out the way they did. if it happened to me I would have snuck out quietly and then addressed it another day. Oh well. I have to learn to let it go someday

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Posted by GinaZ

I have two. The main one is our DJ forgot to have my dad give a toast. We didn't even realize it till the next day when my dad read it to DH and I. Thinking about it now I want to cry. I should have realized it. And now I dont have that on video. it kinda makes me sick now that I dont have that. It was an honest mistake and had I noticed, it wouldnt have been an issue. I just got so wrapped up in the hecticness of the wedding that i didn't think about it.

Another thing is we forgot to request a portrait be taken of me in the same way my grandmas was taken- so to show off my dress and because it was her dress.

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Awww that was an honest mistake. You were probably so caught up during your day you didnt even realize. And why dont you put the dress on again and have a portrait taken anyway! You can still do it. I know its not the same as on your wedding day but it would be cool to show your children one day!

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Posted by GinaZ

Did you ever tell them how it made you feel?

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