**QOTD 8/29/08**

Morning Girls!!!!!

So registering yesterday was a bit overwhelming!!! We didn't get half the stuff we need - I just wasn't 'feeling' any of the dishes or glasses and stuff like that....

So, while registering it led to a question from FH...I've been in so many weddings at this point in my life and I have 'bridesmaid brain'...is it possible for me to be surprised for my shower.

Do you think you'll be able to be surprised...and do you even want to be surprised??

I personally don't think it's possible but I love surprises, so I hope it's possible!!!!!!!!

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For me I WANT TO BE SURPRISED! BUT...I think it is going to be tough for them to surprise me since I live in MD and my shower will be in NY. They only have a few weekends to choose from when we will be up there to visit. So I think they definitely presents them with a challenge! But I think they will all try to fool me!

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I don't know......I think i would like to be a part of the planning and then on the other hand.......I think i would like that surprise.....We'll see what happens....

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Welll... I want to be surprised also! My mom feels like surprises are silly, esp for me bc I am so hard tp surprise. BUT i want to be surprised! Even if I am not really surprised, I want to knwo that my girls tried to be sneaky and tried to have a plan to do so.

I doubt they will succeed bc I am a lil detective hehe BUT ya never know... Anthony was able to shock the $___ outta me for our engagement soooo it issssss possible!

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I told my family that I absolutely do not want to be surprised.....I mean come on we all know we are having one. I don't need the added pressure of picking out a dress months before hand and everything. So the only surprise will be the location. I will know the date and time.

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I want to be surprised but I think I will find out because my family can't keep a secret for anything...one of them will definitely slip. I do want to pick out the favor for the shower though lol.

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I would really love to be surprised, I know my mom and sister in laws are really going to try to surprise me, I just don't know if the can trick me.

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i don't think i'm going to be surprised. my mom got the invites (i was with her ) LOL! I dont' really like surprises...I'm a cry baby!

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It doesnt matter to me as long as im not a mess. My hair better be done nicely that day! lol

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I hope I'm surprised...... I'd rather know so I can look decent but i would love the surprise

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i doubt ill be surprised bc my mom is planning it and she cant keep a secret lol.

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I would want to be surprised, but I know it won't happen. I'll probably end up planning it myself!

My mom has already told me the two places she's thinking of having it, and we have a very small family and I don't have many friends, so there really won't be an alibi to bring me there without me knowing why. Plus I live at home, so I'll obviously see decorations and stuff hiding downstairs, my mom and sis getting ready, etc.

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I so want to be surprised!! It is possible. We totally invented a believeable story for my sis and everyone was in on it and we started lying to her about a fake event liek a month in advance to throw her off and she really beleived that she was going to something else that day. We totally got her good. She was surprised

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I HATE surprises!

I like to know because then I can look forward to things.

My Mom and MOH hate this about me. That nothing is ever a surprise. I either figure it out or they tell me.

So for my shower... I'm going to let them surprise me. I know they really want to.

I'm not going to snoop around for anything.

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I am not a big fan of surprises so I would prefer to have some sort of part in my shower planning. But I am really sneaky and snoopy too so if they were going to try to surprise me I think I would figure it out.

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I'd like to be surprised. Of course we all know its coming eventually. I'm sure my girls really want to surprise me, so I'll have to really try to not snoop. Its definitely going to be hard though!

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I don't want to be surprised - I can't really come up with any GOOD reasons for this, but I just prefer to be in the know! Besides, FH can't keep a secret to save his life and since I want a co-ed shower, the jig would be up before it even got started

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I kind of want it to be a surprise but I am not sure...

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Sure i want to be surprised but my sister lives in florida and will prob not be up here without me finding out about it. so that will be a give away i think.

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I want to be surprised sooo bad... !!!!!! I hope my mom and sister can pull it off !!!