To all 'perspective' Groomsmen

Hi, guys!!!!! Please!!!!! Before saying yes to being a GM, really think it through, and consider the expense, etc. If you cannot afford to be in a wedding, don't be embarrassed to let the Groom know ASAP!!! It is not nice to let the Groom guess about your intentions, if you've told him you'll be in his wedding, and then, he can't get hold of you, because 'you're too embarrassed to tell him, you can't afford it anymore.' The Groom would rather you had told him, ASAP, instead of waiting until the last minute. Thanks for listening!!!! Mary MOB