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today is our RSVP date and....
M&LSept1606
Posted: Aug 16, 2006 10:03 PM+
Posted: Aug 16, 2006 10:03 PM
today is our RSVP date and....
still have over 30 guests who have not responded! some I know are coming, some I have no clue.Why can't people check a box and drop a postage paid envelope in the mail?! Is it so hard?
When I get an invite, I get so excited I send it in right away! If I know I can't go, I send it in too. What is with PEOPLE?
njbound07
Posted: Aug 16, 2006 10:26 PM+
Posted: Aug 16, 2006 10:26 PM
Re: today is our RSVP date and....
I hate when people don't show the courtesy by responding ASAP....For my engagement party... there were about 5 people that didn't respond.. I said s c r e w 'em! I didn't care at that point and I didn't even bother to call to reconfirm that they were or were not coming.. had they showed up I would've said: 'Oh.. I thought you weren't coming.....ummmm.. find a effin' seat wherever you can'! But I know that it's a wedding and not an engagement party.. .the only thing that you can do is call to see what's going on....
roxyvelas
Posted: Aug 16, 2006 10:30 PM+
Posted: Aug 16, 2006 10:30 PM
Re: today is our RSVP date and....
A good 10 people never responded to our invites. Am I crazy by being annoyed at the wasted stamps. They're not cheap.I had to call them.
cherilicious16
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 09:57 AM+
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 09:57 AM
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I dont understand that at all! I would have to have a BM call b/c I would wind up being nasty.
Katie&Chris2006
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 10:09 AM+
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 10:09 AM
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i don't understand why this is such an issue for people. Drop it in the box damnit!
jenneva
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 10:20 AM+
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 10:20 AM
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My response date was July 31st and I was still getting responses after the date. I just got my last response yesterday!
krispyc
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 10:20 AM+
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 10:20 AM
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That's about the same number we were still waiting on when our RSVP date came and went. The whole RSVP thing has stressed me out more than anything else. It really stinks how inconsiderate people can be, especially when they don't even give you a reason as to why they waited so damn long.
CLMon7906
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 10:34 AM+
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 10:34 AM
Re: today is our RSVP date and....
Posted by christina&mike07
I hate when people don't show the courtesy by responding ASAP....
EXACTLY. It's the COURTESY of following the rules, playing the game....making the bride's life easier! Just mail the darn card!
Thank goodness our non-responsives didn't send them in post-wedding date, I probably wouldnt' have been very nice and I would've returned them.
TheBigDay
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 10:43 AM+
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 10:43 AM
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30 rsvps or 30 guests being 15 rsvp's i think that is normal.. i have 1-3 still stagering in a day and mine was a week ago yesterday!... people who know they are coming for a while?!?! this is Y i made it a little early! i was missing about 25 rsvps come rsvp day!
kittythestray
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 11:05 AM+
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 11:05 AM
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I plan on making whoever invited them call them.
October Bliss
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 11:33 AM+
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 11:33 AM
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Only 30 guests outstanding?? That's not too bad - only 15 invites. With one week to go I have 46 invites not responded to, which totals 69 people. And some of those are LIW brides
!
alioop4282
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 11:41 AM+
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 11:41 AM
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Join the club! My date was August 1st..today is the 17th and I'm STILL waiting on like 10 people!!!
ewickens
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 12:13 PM+
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 12:13 PM
Re: today is our RSVP date and....
Posted by M&LSept1606
still have over 30 guests who have not responded! some I know are coming, some I have no clue.
Why can't people check a box and drop a postage paid envelope in the mail?! Is it so hard?
When I get an invite, I get so excited I send it in right away! If I know I can't go, I send it in too. What is with PEOPLE?
I know how you feel!! Ours was yesterday too and we're missing 20 responses! We're waiting until the weekend for people who waited until yesterday to mail there's before we start calling and e-mailing.
bethnsul2000
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 12:38 PM+
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 12:38 PM
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i hear ya...I think it happens to everyone...no one ever gets all their responses back...it is so rude!!!
DandS
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 12:39 PM+
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 12:39 PM
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TurboGirl
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 12:58 PM+
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 12:58 PM
Re: today is our RSVP date and....
Posted by M&LSept1606
still have over 30 guests who have not responded! some I know are coming, some I have no clue.
Why can't people check a box and drop a postage paid envelope in the mail?! Is it so hard?
When I get an invite, I get so excited I send it in right away! If I know I can't go, I send it in too. What is with PEOPLE?
I know how you feel. Yesterday was my RSVP and I still have 45 RSVP's that I didn't get. I have a lot of calling to do today.
imyurfavgirl
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 01:41 PM+
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 01:41 PM
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Dont feel so bad my RSVP date is next week and im still missing 62 invites 49 of them from my fh side
chapel06
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 01:47 PM+
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 01:47 PM
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They've had the invites for almost two months and I am still missing 1/2 of the responses. I feel your pain!
Hisforever
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 01:54 PM+
Posted: Aug 17, 2006 01:54 PM
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so sad, but so true. that drives me crazy...
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