If I am inviting my co-workers to my wedding, should they be invited to my bridal shower also?

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Re: If I am inviting my co-workers to my wedding, should they be invited to my bridal shower also?

help!

Re: If I am inviting my co-workers to my wedding, should they be invited to my bridal shower also?

I had not planned to but my MOH (with FH's sneeky help) invited them.

It was fun!

Re: If I am inviting my co-workers to my wedding, should they be invited to my bridal shower also?

do you ever hang out with them after work? if so then yes unless your workplace gives you a shower,then you don't want them to feel obligated to give you two gifts,

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Posted by citycrab705

do you ever hang out with them after work? if so then yes unless your workplace gives you a shower,then you don't want them to feel obligated to give you two gifts,

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I don't hang out with any of them except for one after work. I do believe they will probably throw me a shower at work though.. so I will maybe just invite the one I hang out with after work?

Re: If I am inviting my co-workers to my wedding, should they be invited to my bridal shower also?

if they are invited to the wedding, they don't necessarily have to be invited to the shower. if you are close to them, i'd say yes.

i didn't invite the co-workers, the list was too long already and i felt it was just looking for gufts.

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ok thanks!

Re: If I am inviting my co-workers to my wedding, should they be invited to my bridal shower also?

I am inviting someone from work to my wedding but not my shower....you don'thave to...

Re: If I am inviting my co-workers to my wedding, should they be invited to my bridal shower also?

I'm inviting a few co-workers to the wedding but none were on the guest list for the shower.

Re: If I am inviting my co-workers to my wedding, should they be invited to my bridal shower also?

etiquette is, or so i was always told, that if you invite them to your shower, you invite them to the wedding.

however, if you workplace throws you a shower, you might not have to invite them twice...particularly if they then think you're inviting them to the wedding because you invited them to the showerr.

Re: If I am inviting my co-workers to my wedding, should they be invited to my bridal shower also?

Mine are because I work in a smaller office and just felt it was the right thing to do for my situation. Do whatever you feel is right for you.

Re: If I am inviting my co-workers to my wedding, should they be invited to my bridal shower also?

I'm inviting co-workers to my wedding but I already told my MOH and mom to spare them the shower. Most of my co-workers live in CT and NYC and I don't want them to have to come to LI for the shower.

I'm sure your co-workers will throw you a shower at the office. I don't think they will be offended if they aren't invited to the shower.

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I am inviting the girls from work to the shower also. I work in a large office and for showers we all make a small contribution so they wont really be giving two gifts. I am close with the ones I am inviting though

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Posted by scappy123

I am inviting the girls from work to the shower also. I work in a large office and for showers we all make a small contribution so they wont really be giving two gifts. I am close with the ones I am inviting though

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ditto... fyi, I'm not inviting the wives of the guys I work with to my shower. That's normal, right (I don't really know them).

Re: If I am inviting my co-workers to my wedding, should they be invited to my bridal shower also?

The co-workers that are invited to my wedding will also be invited to my shower.

Re: If I am inviting my co-workers to my wedding, should they be invited to my bridal shower also?

I am.

Re: If I am inviting my co-workers to my wedding, should they be invited to my bridal shower also?

I did not invite them to my shower and I excused it by saying just family and bridal party.

Re: If I am inviting my co-workers to my wedding, should they be invited to my bridal shower also?

I invited only my really close c0-workers to my shower. Out of 4 I invited.. only 1 showed up

Re: If I am inviting my co-workers to my wedding, should they be invited to my bridal shower also?

my mom invited about half of them..

Re: If I am inviting my co-workers to my wedding, should they be invited to my bridal shower also?

i invited them its suppose to be all the girls that go to the wedding goes to the shower.... mostly everygirl.