Would I be a bridezilla if I wanted all the BM's to wear the same shade of pantyhose?

Don't want some in nude, some in black, etc...

Re: Would I be a bridezilla if I wanted all the BM's to wear the same shade of pantyhose?

If there dresses are all long, then I would say yeah, cause nobody's gonna be seeing it. If they are shorter dresses, its more understandable to want them all in the same color..

Re: Would I be a bridezilla if I wanted all the BM's to wear the same shade of pantyhose?

Why would they wear panyhose in May? Are they wearing open toes? Panty house with open toed shoes is a fashion faux paus imho.

Re: Would I be a bridezilla if I wanted all the BM's to wear the same shade of pantyhose?

Just to address those points:

* NOT open toed shoes (I agree, that is wrong)

* The dresses have a slit, so they will show some leg

Re: Would I be a bridezilla if I wanted all the BM's to wear the same shade of pantyhose?

I don't really know the relationships you have with you and your girls, but If its gonna be a point of issue for you, why not make pantyhose part of the BM's gifts you give them, (the stuff they're gonna wear that day, jewelry, pantyhose) so you can get the color you want, without sounding demanding and everything... just a thought...

Re: Would I be a bridezilla if I wanted all the BM's to wear the same shade of pantyhose?

I wouldn't say so much bridezilla for the shades of pantyhose, but I would say it's a little much to ask someone to wear pantyhose - even with a slit.

I think pantyhose are absolutely obnoxious - they itch and are very uncomfortable for me....so I wouldn't wear them.

However, if they want to wear them, and they're comfortable in them - then I would allow them to wear whatever they feel comfortable in.

They make pantyhose in different shades to match the skintones - unless all your girls are of the same skintones, I would simply say 'if you're wearing pantyhose, please wear nude ones.' It comes off a lot better than saying 'I want you all to wear nude ones - in the color of sand....' That's a little too much IMHO.

Re: Would I be a bridezilla if I wanted all the BM's to wear the same shade of pantyhose?

it wouldn't be so bridezillaish if you buy it for them and put it in their bm gifts

Re: Would I be a bridezilla if I wanted all the BM's to wear the same shade of pantyhose?

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Posted by kathyt77

Just to address those points:

* NOT open toed shoes (I agree, that is wrong)

* The dresses have a slit, so they will show some leg

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Okay then yes...they should all wear the same color. Not bridezilla at all.

Re: Would I be a bridezilla if I wanted all the BM's to wear the same shade of pantyhose?

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Posted by ChrissynRicky

I wouldn't say so much bridezilla for the shades of pantyhose, but I would say it's a little much to ask someone to wear pantyhose - even with a slit.

I think pantyhose are absolutely obnoxious - they itch and are very uncomfortable for me....so I wouldn't wear them.

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I agree. If I was in a May wedding (or really any season cause I hate pantyhose), given the choice I would NOT wear any pantyhose. I might be a little annoyed if the bride requested we all wear the same shade, cause then I'd have to wear it (and I'd be uncomfortable the whole night).