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Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?
enjft Posted: Dec 31, 2005 11:39 AM+
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Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

Mine did not but popped the question in front of them all.
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JazzyT Posted: Dec 31, 2005 11:41 AM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

FH did he asked my mom first, she told my dad to soften him up then he asked my dad.
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afrodyt2000 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 11:43 AM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

No after about 6.5 years, I think he already knew. I think he knew I didn't care either way.
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toddlerteacher Posted: Dec 31, 2005 11:50 AM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

Well...he asked me dad...what a sweetheart!
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Nina Posted: Dec 31, 2005 11:53 AM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

Yes......

He asked both mom and dad.......
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JennyAl Posted: Dec 31, 2005 11:54 AM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

FI asked both my parents.....my mom cried, while my dad inspected the ring....
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Athee07 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 12:04 PM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

nope and I told him not to
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chellynyc Posted: Dec 31, 2005 12:09 PM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

Yes he did - I wanted him to and he had planned on doing it - we like sticking to tradition.
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Soon2BeMrs2006 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 12:12 PM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

yes he asked both, but he had to do it over the phone because he didnt want me to suspect anything. He did come to see them the day after he had proposed.
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giapet99 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 12:32 PM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

YUP he asked my daddy
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kam0813 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 12:39 PM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

nope he didn't..but that's because my family s-cks a$$
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FDWedding07 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 12:41 PM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

My FH asked my older brother. My father is the go along with anything type of person. My older brother is the I will kill you if you hurt my sister type of person.
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pupidda122505 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 01:50 PM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

My FH asked my parents two weeks before he popped the question and like most 'old school' italians, my dad gave him a long speech I felt sooo bad when FH told me what he had to go through...but one cute thing he told me was something my dad said...at the end of the speech hmy dad hugged FH and told him welcome to the family and he said even though I'm really happy , I'm also really sad to lose my daughter my dad's never been the emotional type so to hear that really surprised me
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BklynItaliana Posted: Dec 31, 2005 02:09 PM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

fh asked mom & dad...and told the whole world..except me
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E-n-K Posted: Dec 31, 2005 03:01 PM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

FH asked both!
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charliesbride Posted: Dec 31, 2005 04:34 PM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

yes, my FH asked my dad
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Tiggeruth Posted: Dec 31, 2005 04:39 PM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

Yup, he asked my dad. We were all out of town and actually tricked me to go to the car so he'd have a moment alone with my dad :)
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PegaLega Posted: Dec 31, 2005 09:00 PM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?

He asked my dad, whose response was 'what if I said no?' and FH responded I would ask anyway...

needless to say my dad said yes, FH and him get along VERY well!
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werock0709 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 09:07 PM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?


Posted by Nina

Yes......

He asked both mom and dad.......



Unfortunately my dad is not in the picture. But when my oldest brother(who was basicly my father figure since I was a child) asked Darren when he was going to make a woman of me, Darren had said well with your approval by the end of the year. This happened right in front of me, and low and behold on our 3 year anniversary he finnaly asked. Sorry this is sooo long, I guess I just wanted to let you guys know, that although I don't have my dad, I do have someone that cares just as much.
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werock0709 Posted: Dec 31, 2005 09:15 PM+
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Re: Did your FI ask your family's permission for your hand in marriage?


Posted by enjft

Mine did not but popped the question in front of them all.




Just for the record, this whole post made me cry. I dunno why, I guess I wish, well whatever......... Sorry girls
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