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Off topic sex question.... but curious if I am crazy

BJandDan Posted: Nov 18, 2005 07:25 PM+

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Posted: Nov 18, 2005 07:25 PM

Off topic sex question.... but curious if I am crazy

Does anyone else burst into tears after

Or am I just abnormal? And if you do does FH think you are crazy or cute?

johnsae Posted: Nov 18, 2005 09:27 PM+

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Posted: Nov 18, 2005 09:27 PM

Re: Off topic sex question.... but curious if I am crazy

FH once mentioned that one of his ex-girlfriends cried while they had sex and he said it totally freaked him out.

MattsBride Posted: Nov 18, 2005 09:35 PM+

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Posted: Nov 18, 2005 09:35 PM

Re: Off topic sex question.... but curious if I am crazy

Posted by BJandDan

Does anyone else burst into tears after Or am I just abnormal? And if you do does FH think you are crazy or cute?

Are you crying because you're happy? If so, I don't think you're abnormal...maybe a little emotional!

SIBride06 Posted: Nov 18, 2005 10:40 PM+

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Posted: Nov 18, 2005 10:40 PM

Re: Off topic sex question.... but curious if I am crazy

Sex itself is very emotional-especially when you are with the right person, its such an overwhelming feeling. As long as your tearing up because your happy, then it is completely normal. Some women actually cry tears of joy after sex. This is perfectly fine (in fact, it's wonderful), so don't worry, there's nothing wrong with you. If you continue to feel emotional after sex, cherish that as a special time. Think of it as your body's time to say, ''Oh, god'' and for you to say thanks to your wonderful partner for provoking such an intense response in you.

BRIDEMICHELE Posted: Nov 18, 2005 11:03 PM+

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Posted: Nov 18, 2005 11:03 PM

Re: Off topic sex question.... but curious if I am crazy

Posted by BJandDan

Does anyone else burst into tears after Or am I just abnormal? And if you do does FH think you are crazy or cute?

YES! I cry afterwards about half of the time. Not like sobbing but a couple of tears. I think it's because it's so emotional and so intimate. FH just kinds of holds me and doesn't comment. I think he understands. It's nice.

DCSAAB06 Posted: Nov 18, 2005 11:08 PM+

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Posted: Nov 18, 2005 11:08 PM

Re: Off topic sex question.... but curious if I am crazy

I did once and it was the weirdest thing, I couldnt control it...we both laughed afterwards. Just a sign of how in love and happy I am to be w/FH

Goldi1021 Posted: Nov 19, 2005 12:11 AM+

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Posted: Nov 19, 2005 12:11 AM

Re: Off topic sex question.... but curious if I am crazy

I cry sometimes - then Ed puts the onions away and its all better.

soontobemrsd325 Posted: Nov 19, 2005 12:24 AM+

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Posted: Nov 19, 2005 12:24 AM

Re: Off topic sex question.... but curious if I am crazy

The area in the brain that register pleaure chemicals is very close to the area that registers painful ones....this is why we may sometimes cry. Not because of pain though!!

Love_my_Freddybear Posted: Nov 19, 2005 08:29 AM+

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Posted: Nov 19, 2005 08:29 AM

Re: Off topic sex question.... but curious if I am crazy

Posted by SIBride06

Sex itself is very emotional-especially when you are with the right person, its such an overwhelming feeling. As long as your tearing up because your happy, then it is completely normal. Some women actually cry tears of joy after sex. This is perfectly fine (in fact, it's wonderful), so don't worry, there's nothing wrong with you. If you continue to feel emotional after sex, cherish that as a special time. Think of it as your body's time to say, ''Oh, god'' and for you to say thanks to your wonderful partner for provoking such an intense response in you.

Well put MA!!!!

Love_my_Freddybear Posted: Nov 19, 2005 08:34 AM+

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Posted: Nov 19, 2005 08:34 AM

Re: Off topic sex question.... but curious if I am crazy

The first time I cried with FH was b/c I knew it was 'right' and it was beautiful and b/c...well....I knew I loved him and he was the one I was going to spend the rest of my life with.

It has happend a handful of times after that. I think he loves it when I cry b/c he knows that I am NOT one to shed a tear. So when I do it's totally sincere.

My best friend cries almost 95% of the time. She's an emotional person and I don't think it's abnormal at all.

I think your post was very interesting, glad you posted it!!!

AlliNMatt06 Posted: Nov 19, 2005 09:37 AM+

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Posted: Nov 19, 2005 09:37 AM