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N.Y.bride
Beyond Obsession

Member since 3/05 7207 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/28/2005 11:30 AM
Wed. Location: Chateau La Mer A++++++
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I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
Really loud during the ceremony and during the reception. Numerous people have told me, even ones who dont really know her.
They said, she kept saying "boy it must be nice that she can afford this, If I had this money Id pay my mortgage, I wonder how she got all this money, where did this money come from, how can she afford this." I'm told it was said in a not nice way.
I want to call her up and be like - you are a nurse! I am a single mom/teacher! I paid my WHOLE wedding in cash. I SAVED it and worked HARD for it. Its not my fault you blow yours away!
Just needed to vent.
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Posted 8/10/05 8:04 PM
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mendara
Board Fanatic

Member since 5/05 298 total posts
Wedding Date: 9/30/2005 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: Nice Place
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
I find that many people say things like this - they always say things like "why spend this much money on a wedding when you can buy a house?"
or "I would never spend this much on a wedding"
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Posted 8/10/05 8:10 PM
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N.Y.bride
Beyond Obsession

Member since 3/05 7207 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/28/2005 11:30 AM
Wed. Location: Chateau La Mer A++++++
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
and I didnt even spend that much. I think after gifts I ended up about $5,000 in the negative, but it was so worth it. <~~ bargain shopper.
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Posted 8/10/05 8:15 PM
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littlebookworm4
Old and married

Member since 10/03 4789 total posts
Wedding Date: 11/18/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location: Thatched Cottage
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
OMG!!! I can't believe she made comments like that!
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Posted 8/10/05 9:41 PM
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ssbride05
Finally reached 1,000!!!!!!
Member since 12/04 1492 total posts
Wedding Date: 10/9/2005 3:00 PM
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
wow!!! I can;t believe that.. sorry she said that to you!
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Posted 8/10/05 9:46 PM
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Mrs. dleeny
My most beautiful day ever

Member since 3/05 12395 total posts
Wedding Date: 11/6/2005 5:00 PM
Wed. Location: Swan Club A+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
I'm sure that if you had a small wedding in a restaurant someone else would have complained too.
can't please 'em all. people should shut their mouths! the nerve
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Posted 8/10/05 9:54 PM
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N.Y.bride
Beyond Obsession

Member since 3/05 7207 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/28/2005 11:30 AM
Wed. Location: Chateau La Mer A++++++
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
no kidding! Sometimes I wish I could talk back to these people. I didnt want to invite her anyway!
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Posted 8/10/05 9:54 PM
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SummerBride2005
Board Fanatic

Member since 11/04 553 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/27/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location: Swan Club
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
She's not worth your energy....she seems judgmental and jealous. If you're gonna have a wedding, you have to do it right and the way you like it. It seems you've accomplished both
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Posted 8/10/05 10:00 PM
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N.Y.bride
Beyond Obsession

Member since 3/05 7207 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/28/2005 11:30 AM
Wed. Location: Chateau La Mer A++++++
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
I did Thank you!
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Posted 8/10/05 10:03 PM
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MissusJones
I's Married Now!!!

Member since 10/04 1062 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/14/2005 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: Stewar Manor Country Club
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
no matter what you do in life, someone will always try to bring you down...my wedding is in 3 days, and believe me, people have a weird way of showing their support sometimes
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Posted 8/10/05 10:39 PM
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boobobunny
All for my little Miracle!!!!

Member since 3/05 1595 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/19/2005 6:30 PM
Wed. Location: Watermill
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
there is always someone who has to run their mouth....I think that its jealousy
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Posted 8/10/05 10:41 PM
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hmpena
Momma to be- team blue!

Member since 1/05 14747 total posts
Wedding Date: 1/15/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location: Fox Hollow A+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
Some people are just so rude and have no manners. You had the wedding of your dreams without going into debt. Don't give her another thought!
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Posted 8/11/05 9:35 AM
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edsprincess
Christmas is around the corner

Member since 1/05 2141 total posts
Wedding Date: 10/2/2005 12:30 PM
Wed. Location: watermillA++
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
The nerve!!!!! That's right you worked your butt off to have the day you did. I would tell her off. Thankfully you heard of this afterward because it would have ruined your day for sure.
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Posted 8/11/05 9:40 AM
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jimmysgrl
It's An Obsession

Member since 10/04 3543 total posts
Wedding Date: 12/3/2005 3:30 PM
Wed. Location: Harrison House
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
That's really wrong! yuck!
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Posted 8/11/05 10:13 AM
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Soccer_Girl
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 10/04 1479 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/17/2008 1:05 AM
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Message edited 11/5/2006 10:21:28 AM.
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Posted 8/11/05 11:35 AM
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italia6973
Give me courage for the fight!

Member since 10/04 1148 total posts
Wedding Date: 10/22/2005 2:30 PM
Wed. Location: Villa Lombardi's
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
People can be so rude! Don't let her get to you, it's not worth it!
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Posted 8/11/05 12:43 PM
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Marrie
Wedding Newbie
Member since 5/05 20 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/20/2006 12:00 AM
Wed. Location: Fox Hollow
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
Hi.
take it as a complement. She was impressed and had no idea how to deal with your successes in life!
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Posted 8/11/05 11:17 PM
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cjb88
I'm a married lady!!!

Member since 11/04 7315 total posts
Wedding Date: 4/8/2006 6:00 PM
Wed. Location: Hamlet Willow Creek A+++++++
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
this is what i would say to your aunt:
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Posted 8/11/05 11:33 PM
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PinkSoil
I went to Graceland!!!

Member since 9/04 1022 total posts
Wedding Date: 9/23/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location: George Washington Manor
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
blahhh, I hate when people have to voice their opinion when it is none of their business!!
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Posted 8/12/05 7:23 AM
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N.Y.bride
Beyond Obsession

Member since 3/05 7207 total posts
Wedding Date: 7/28/2005 11:30 AM
Wed. Location: Chateau La Mer A++++++
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
I love that pic! I have one from Gabe like that. He was showing us a boo boo on his finger or something. Its cute.
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Posted 8/12/05 7:58 AM
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mcaula
Bun in the Oven:)

Member since 5/04 1921 total posts
Wedding Date: 8/26/2005 7:00 PM
Wed. Location: Chateau La Mer
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
OMG don't we all have at least one of those Aunts who are just embarrasing and never have nothing nice to say.
I have one like that and she is already saying little stuff and the wedding isn't even here yet.
I won't let her or anybody ruin my day
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Posted 8/12/05 9:42 AM
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