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I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding
N.Y.bride Posted: Aug 10, 2005 08:04 PM+
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I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

Really loud during the ceremony and during the reception. Numerous people have told me, even ones who dont really know her.

They said, she kept saying 'boy it must be nice that she can afford this, If I had this money Id pay my mortgage, I wonder how she got all this money, where did this money come from, how can she afford this.' I'm told it was said in a not nice way.

I want to call her up and be like - you are a nurse! I am a single mom/teacher! I paid my WHOLE wedding in cash. I SAVED it and worked HARD for it. Its not my fault you blow yours away!

Just needed to vent.
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mendara Posted: Aug 10, 2005 08:10 PM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

I find that many people say things like this - they always say things like 'why spend this much money on a wedding when you can buy a house?'

or 'I would never spend this much on a wedding'

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N.Y.bride Posted: Aug 10, 2005 08:15 PM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

and I didnt even spend that much. I think after gifts I ended up about $5,000 in the negative, but it was so worth it. <~~ bargain shopper.
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littlebookworm4 Posted: Aug 10, 2005 09:41 PM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

OMG!!! I can't believe she made comments like that!
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ssbride05 Posted: Aug 10, 2005 09:46 PM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

wow!!! I can;t believe that.. sorry she said that to you!
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Mrs. dleeny Posted: Aug 10, 2005 09:54 PM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

I'm sure that if you had a small wedding in a restaurant someone else would have complained too.

can't please 'em all. people should shut their mouths! the nerve
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N.Y.bride Posted: Aug 10, 2005 09:54 PM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

no kidding! Sometimes I wish I could talk back to these people. I didnt want to invite her anyway!
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SummerBride2005 Posted: Aug 10, 2005 10:00 PM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

She's not worth your energy....she seems judgmental and jealous. If you're gonna have a wedding, you have to do it right and the way you like it. It seems you've accomplished both
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N.Y.bride Posted: Aug 10, 2005 10:04 PM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

I did Thank you!
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MissusJones Posted: Aug 10, 2005 10:39 PM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

no matter what you do in life, someone will always try to bring you down...my wedding is in 3 days, and believe me, people have a weird way of showing their support sometimes
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boobobunny Posted: Aug 10, 2005 10:41 PM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

there is always someone who has to run their mouth....I think that its jealousy
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hmpena Posted: Aug 11, 2005 09:35 AM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

Some people are just so rude and have no manners. You had the wedding of your dreams without going into debt. Don't give her another thought!
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edsprincess Posted: Aug 11, 2005 09:40 AM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

The nerve!!!!! That's right you worked your butt off to have the day you did. I would tell her off. Thankfully you heard of this afterward because it would have ruined your day for sure.
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jimmysgrl Posted: Aug 11, 2005 10:13 AM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

That's really wrong! yuck!
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Soccer_Girl Posted: Aug 11, 2005 11:35 AM+
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italia6973 Posted: Aug 11, 2005 12:43 PM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

People can be so rude! Don't let her get to you, it's not worth it!
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Marrie Posted: Aug 11, 2005 11:17 PM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

Hi.

take it as a complement. She was impressed and had no idea how to deal with your successes in life!
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cjb88 Posted: Aug 11, 2005 11:33 PM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

this is what i would say to your aunt:
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PinkSoil Posted: Aug 12, 2005 07:23 AM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

blahhh, I hate when people have to voice their opinion when it is none of their business!!
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N.Y.bride Posted: Aug 12, 2005 07:58 AM+
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Re: I found out my aunt was complaining the whole wedding

I love that pic! I have one from Gabe like that. He was showing us a boo boo on his finger or something. Its cute.
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