NWR - I'm going crazy

As many of you know FI is in England and we have been without each other for 13 months. We have only 13 more months to our wedding, but I honestly feel like I'm going crazy. FI is honestly one of the sweetest men I have ever met in all o fmy life - he is well spoken, well mannered, kind and even still believes in chivalry.

Its unfortunate that nearly every weekend we argue because although we are in a relationship we are not sharing one anothers lives as so many other couples get to do. I yell at him because he doesn't give me any of his time on Fridays (he's already out when I,m getting home as there is a 5 hour time difference) then he yells back at me because he tells me I'm the most important thing in his life (when although deep down I know I am I just don't feel it at times) and it just goes back and forth and I wind up resenting him not because he goes out because I do aswell but because I am not part of the stories he tells nor he is of mine.

We still get to see eachother every 6 weeks and I know there are woman that don't get to see their husbands, FIs and boyfriends because of military duty - I commend you on those relationships and apologise if I seem if I'm complaining - I just don't want to feel resentful, sad and hurt everytime he goes out.

Any suggestions -I apologise for the long email. Thanks!

Re: NWR - I'm going crazy

Awww. Sweetie. That must be really frustrating

One day you guys will be together.. and just think.. You will be able to sped the rest of your lives with each other.

Hang in there. Remember how much he loves you. If you need to talk, we are here. Heres some hugs for you...

Re: NWR - I'm going crazy

Aww...are you gonna live together when you get married? Dont feel like your complaining, it must be extrememly difficult!

Re: NWR - I'm going crazy

I feel your pain - but I'm only seperated by 50 miles!

It's frustrating.

FH and I never fight when we are together but I pick fights all the time when we are apart. We see each other usually every week, but it is frustrating not to share in the daily life...

but you are almost there. the light at the end of the tunnel!!

i keep saying..someday...i'm going to look back and laugh and say 'I did long distance for four years!!!'

keep your chin up!

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Awww... I give you alot of credit.

Being in a long distance relationship is difficult.
I always complain to FH because we don't see eachother much. He works 2 jobs so it's hard, plus he lives in Nass and I live in Suff.
I don't get to share with him daily activites like other relationships. But I think it makes us have a stronger bond.
I know that your situation is different than mine but I knind of now what you are going through.
When ever you need to vent we are here.

It will all work out!


edited for spelling.