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If the If the Brides parents are paying for the wedding..........Whats the deal with the limos???
Bride2Be06 Posted: Jun 18, 2005 11:23 PM+
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If the If the Brides parents are paying for the wedding..........Whats the deal with the limos???

Are they ALSO paying for second limo to pick up the groom and his parents and the men in the bridal party to bring them to the church ??????????????????

What is the proper way to go about this???


Thanks!!!!!!!
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SomethingBlu Posted: Jun 18, 2005 11:30 PM+
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Re: If the Brides parents are paying for the wedding..........Whats the deal with the limos???

I believe they do pay for transportation...I found this article online:

Traditionally, the wedding day is hosted by your parents and paid for by your father. Today, the etiquette of old is far less rigid and only about 30% of weddings are paid for by your parents. More and more couples are opting to pay for their own wedding since they are then free to choose exactly what they want without the worry of putting their parents under financial strain. Recent research has shown that about 50% of weddings are now paid for by the bride and groom and about 15% are paid for by everyone contributing in varying degrees. However, many brides' fathers have prepared themselves for their daughter's marriage by saving well in advance and they welcome the opportunity to exercise their prerogative

Traditional Responsibilities
If you intend to adopt the traditional responsibilities for paying your wedding expenses, the following usually applies:

The Bride's Father pays for:
Engagement announcement in newspaper.
Stationery and postage expenses.
Bride's and bridesmaids' dresses and accessories.
Page boy outfit.
His own suit and bride's mother's outfit.
Transport for bride and himself, bridesmaids and bride's mother to ceremony venue.
Transport for bride and groom, bride's mother, bridesmaids and himself from ceremony venue to reception venue.
Flowers for the church and reception.
Bouquets for the bride and bridesmaids ( * see below).
Buttonholes for participants and guests ( * see below).
Photographer and/or videographer.
Wedding Cake.
Reception and all associated expenses.
Wedding Insurance.
Overnight accommodation for close family if required.
Wedding present for his daughter and her new husband.
Wedding consultant fees.
* Sometimes considered the responsibility of the groom.


The Groom's Parents pay for:
The parents' meeting following the engagement announcement.
Their own outfits.
Wedding present for the newly-weds.


The Bride pays for:
Hen party.
Groom's ring.
Something old, new, borrowed and blue.
Hairdresser and beautician on the day.
Her going-away outfit.
Present for groom.


The Groom pays for:
Stag party.
Bride's wedding ring.
Hiring of his own, best man's and ushers' suits.
Transport for best man and himself to ceremony venue.
Civil or church ceremony fees.
Presents for the bride, bridesmaids, pages, ushers and best man.
His going-away outfit.
Transport away from reception venue for himself and his new wife.
Wedding night venue.
Honeymoon.
Press announcement for wedding.


The Bride and Groom pay for:
Present for the bride's parents.

The best man does not usually pay for anything although he will pay for the marriage ceremony on the day with money given to him by the groom.
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Bride2Be06 Posted: Jun 18, 2005 11:37 PM+
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Re: If the If the Brides parents are paying for the wedding..........Whats the deal with the limos???

hmmm interesting.....

so the brides parents do pay for the transportation...


so i guess we would need 2 limos then....
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SomethingBlu Posted: Jun 18, 2005 11:40 PM+
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Re: If the If the Brides parents are paying for the wedding..........Whats the deal with the limos???


Posted by Bride2Be06

hmmm interesting.....

so the brides parents do pay for the transportation...


so i guess we would need 2 limos then....



It seems like 'traditionally' the bride's parents pay for everything. That kind of stinks for the bride's parents...I mean, the FH is getting a bride...a bigger contribution should be made!
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