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gloriaalexander108 Posted: Dec 05, 2004 08:59 PM+

gloriaalexander108 MEMBER SINCE: 10/04 TOTAL POSTS : 122 WEDDING DATE: Jun 24, 2006

Posted: Dec 05, 2004 08:59 PM

Not Officially TTC but......

For the past 4 months FH & I havent been taking any percautions 'not' to get pregnant and nothing has happened. I know this hasnt been going on that long but I know for a fact that my FH can have children (got ex G/F preg but she lost the baby) but I'm begining to get a little worried. What if it's me? When I was a baby I had a dislocated hip and required TONS of x-rays, my mom says that there could be a chance of this effecting reproduction. I've always had heavy, painfull, irregular periods,, I spoke to GYN about it and was told it was because I was overweight. Well I recently lost 125 pounds and according to my doctor I am supposed to be extremely fertile now, so I dont understand why no bundle of joy has come along. I spoke to a friend who is an OBGYN and he said that the doc wont even entertain any prego problem until we've tried for at least 1 year....I'm just frustrated and scared that I cant have children. I bought one of those ovulation kits I'm gonna try...Sorry everyone I needed to vent bigtime.....

Melissa Posted: Dec 06, 2004 12:05 AM+

Melissa MEMBER SINCE: 3/01 TOTAL POSTS : 2403 WEDDING DATE: Aug 31, 2002

Posted: Dec 06, 2004 12:05 AM

Re: Not Officially TTC but......

You can try charting. This way you'll know when you're ovulating and then your chances of conceiving are that much greater.

StepherG Posted: Dec 06, 2004 09:57 AM+

StepherG MEMBER SINCE: 7/03 TOTAL POSTS : 1940 WEDDING DATE: Aug 01, 2004

Posted: Dec 06, 2004 09:57 AM

Re: Not Officially TTC but......

Have you been trying in the sense of BDing around O time? It may be just that you are missing that window...don't worry, it'll happen!!! Good luck!

mv1003 Posted: Dec 06, 2004 05:22 PM+

mv1003 MEMBER SINCE: 11/02 TOTAL POSTS : 1783 WEDDING DATE: Oct 19, 2003 WEDDING LOCATION: Lr.Sackville,NS,Canada

Posted: Dec 06, 2004 05:22 PM

Re: Not Officially TTC but......

First off, congrats on loosing 125lbs!!! Wow, that's incredible! I wish I could loose 5lbs!

Don't worry so much just yet, I'm sure it's just b/c you're not BDing around the ovulation time. It's a small window. Best of luck!