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1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

lolita4life Posted: Sep 19, 2004 11:40 PM+

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Posted: Sep 19, 2004 11:40 PM

1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

when do you all (or DO you) plan on having babies

DebsNY Posted: Sep 19, 2004 11:41 PM+

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Posted: Sep 19, 2004 11:41 PM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

Well, if all goes according to plan (i blame my anal planning on the fact that i'm a virgo) I will have the first one approximetly 5 years after i get married.... I want to have the first at 27/28, the second at around 29/30

Butterflybride Posted: Sep 19, 2004 11:45 PM+

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Posted: Sep 19, 2004 11:45 PM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

well, young bride=young mom. We're going to try to wait at least a few years, but I don't think it's going to happen

DebsNY Posted: Sep 19, 2004 11:47 PM+

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Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

Posted by Butterflybride

well, young bride=young mom. We're going to try to wait at least a few years, but I don't think it's going to happen

I'd actually love to have one w/i a year or two after we're married... but i really want to be able to stay home... and we need to save some if there's any chance for that... so waiting it is.

i love babies though!

cranesgirl25 Posted: Sep 19, 2004 11:48 PM+

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Posted: Sep 19, 2004 11:48 PM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

well my husband and i are in the process of building a home, plus we want to travel alot. so 3-4 if ever.

lolita4life Posted: Sep 20, 2004 12:10 AM+

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Posted: Sep 20, 2004 12:10 AM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

Posted by DebsNY

i blame my anal planning

i read it worng at first and made me LOL

Aga Posted: Sep 20, 2004 12:13 AM+

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Posted: Sep 20, 2004 12:13 AM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

when it happens

DebsNY Posted: Sep 20, 2004 12:14 AM+

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Posted: Sep 20, 2004 12:14 AM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

Posted by lolita4life

Posted by DebsNY

i blame my anal planning

i read it worng at first and made me LOL

hmm, yeah, perhaps i should double check the context of the word 'anal' in future posts...

when i post that word, it will usually be in reference to the fact that i am anal retentive

brooklynbridezilla Posted: Sep 20, 2004 06:09 AM+

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Posted: Sep 20, 2004 06:09 AM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

Not for 8 or more years, if we decide to have them at all.

morales066 Posted: Sep 20, 2004 08:34 AM+

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Posted: Sep 20, 2004 08:34 AM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

We already have a daughter and don't plan on having any more.

David'sbride Posted: Sep 20, 2004 08:39 AM+

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Posted: Sep 20, 2004 08:39 AM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

Well considering FH will turn 37 three days after our wedding and I'll be 35 a couple of months later I'm hoping to get pregos right away. I had a lot of time to be single, travel and concentrate on my career and really want to be a mom. I think it's a great age to have them. My friends that were in their 30's are more relaxed about the little things.

CubanBride Posted: Sep 20, 2004 09:19 AM+

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Posted: Sep 20, 2004 09:19 AM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

I think we are going to start trying for a baby about 2 years after the wedding. There are some things I want to do (including a cross country road trip) before getting pregnant.

Donna&Joe708 Posted: Sep 20, 2004 09:21 AM+

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Posted: Sep 20, 2004 09:21 AM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

Not sure...there's too much that my FH and I want before we can even consider having one.

gtsgirl Posted: Sep 20, 2004 09:23 AM+

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Posted: Sep 20, 2004 09:23 AM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

We are going to start trying like 6 months after the wedding..I'm no spring chicken you know LOL

WinterBride2005 Posted: Sep 20, 2004 09:43 AM+

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Posted: Sep 20, 2004 09:43 AM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

We are thinking two years after marriage. We'll see.. FH brother and SIL just had their first baby. We are all ga ga over her.

DebMaher Posted: Sep 20, 2004 09:44 AM+

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Posted: Sep 20, 2004 09:44 AM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

Yeah, the other deb -- that is one way to, um 'family plan'

May05Bride Posted: Sep 20, 2004 10:01 AM+

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Posted: Sep 20, 2004 10:01 AM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

I would like to have my first a 2 years after marriage, when I am 27.

But... can you really plan these things thoguh?

diamondgrlie Posted: Sep 20, 2004 10:05 AM+

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Posted: Sep 20, 2004 10:05 AM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

On our 1 yr anniversary trip to CA

DebsNY Posted: Sep 20, 2004 10:17 AM+

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Posted: Sep 20, 2004 10:17 AM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

Posted by DebMaher

Yeah, the other deb -- that is one way to, um 'family plan'

Bebalina Posted: Sep 20, 2004 10:30 AM+

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Posted: Sep 20, 2004 10:30 AM

Re: 1st comes LOVE then comes MARRIAGE then comes a BABY...?

We're shooting for a year and half after the wedding...so late summer, early fall of 06 we'll start trying...unless something happens earlier...who knows.