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18 day from my wedding from my and my aunt pull this @$#@

Leoane Posted: Jun 09, 2004 09:54 AM+

Leoane MEMBER SINCE: 1/04 TOTAL POSTS : 293 WEDDING DATE: Mar 25, 2007

Posted: Jun 09, 2004 09:54 AM

18 day from my wedding from my and my aunt pull this @$#@

My aunt live in North Carolina and we ask her in October 05,2003 if I can use her son in my wedding partys. My mother call her today and ask her when is he come up here so we can get he fitting for his tux.(sc they get out of school may 20) Now she since I did not put her two daughter in that I can't get her son. 18 day from my wedding day.

Kriss2c Posted: Jun 09, 2004 09:56 AM+

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Posted: Jun 09, 2004 09:56 AM

Re: 18 day from my wedding from my and my aunt pull this @$#@

Any chance of a compromise here? I'm sorry you have to go through this.

tonia1001 Posted: Jun 09, 2004 09:56 AM+

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Posted: Jun 09, 2004 09:56 AM

Re: 18 day from my wedding from my and my aunt pull this @$#@

I'm sorry leoane! I hope it works out!

Xelindrya Posted: Jun 09, 2004 09:56 AM+

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Posted: Jun 09, 2004 09:56 AM

Re: 18 day from my wedding from my and my aunt pull this @$#@

Sorry you're going through this trouble. Family is always the toughest!

StepherG Posted: Jun 09, 2004 10:00 AM+

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Posted: Jun 09, 2004 10:00 AM

Re: 18 day from my wedding from my and my aunt pull this @$#@

Sounds kinda weird to me. You asked to 'use' her son? Are you close with them?

I would be PO'd too, but doesn't sound like you really even know him to get upset. If he was the ring bearer, you could just eliminate that role.

Leoane Posted: Jun 09, 2004 10:09 AM+

Leoane MEMBER SINCE: 1/04 TOTAL POSTS : 293 WEDDING DATE: Mar 25, 2007

Posted: Jun 09, 2004 10:09 AM

Re: 18 day from my wedding from my and my aunt pull this @$#@

The reason I did not put my two female cousin one because she is real cheap she would told me to pay for them and she give me the money back. She said that same thing to my aunt for her wedding and this wedding was for years ago. My aunt is still wait on that money.
Another reason because my family are 80% female and 20%male and they are two young one in they age group are in the wedding. They will had no one to walk with.

Leoane Posted: Jun 09, 2004 10:11 AM+

Leoane MEMBER SINCE: 1/04 TOTAL POSTS : 293 WEDDING DATE: Mar 25, 2007

Posted: Jun 09, 2004 10:11 AM

Re: 18 day from my wedding from my and my aunt pull this @$#@

I use go to my aunt house 3 weeks in the summer time is is a close aunt she is just small minded

FLaCaTaCa Posted: Jun 09, 2004 10:20 AM+

FLaCaTaCa MEMBER SINCE: 3/04 TOTAL POSTS : 5857 WEDDING DATE: Jan 13, 2007

Posted: Jun 09, 2004 10:20 AM

Re: 18 day from my wedding from my and my aunt pull this @$#@

I am so sorry!
Family can be mighty difficult to deal with.

Was he your ring bearer?

Leoane Posted: Jun 09, 2004 10:53 AM+

Leoane MEMBER SINCE: 1/04 TOTAL POSTS : 293 WEDDING DATE: Mar 25, 2007

Posted: Jun 09, 2004 10:53 AM

Re: 18 day from my wedding from my and my aunt pull this @$#@

No a Jr gm

brideinapril Posted: Jun 09, 2004 11:02 AM+

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Posted: Jun 09, 2004 11:02 AM

Re: 18 day from my wedding from my and my aunt pull this @$#@

So sorry you have to deal with this!!

OctBride05 Posted: Jun 09, 2004 11:06 AM+

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Posted: Jun 09, 2004 11:06 AM

Re: 18 day from my wedding from my and my aunt pull this @$#@

sorry you have to deal with this

StepherG Posted: Jun 09, 2004 11:13 AM+

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Posted: Jun 09, 2004 11:13 AM

Re: 18 day from my wedding from my and my aunt pull this @$#@

Sorry..this stinks for you!

jill13bean Posted: Jun 09, 2004 11:46 AM+

jill13bean MEMBER SINCE: 1/04 TOTAL POSTS : 2893 WEDDING DATE: Apr 30, 2005

Posted: Jun 09, 2004 11:46 AM

Re: 18 day from my wedding from my and my aunt pull this @$#@

I am sorry you are so upset but does it matter? can you just take him out? You don't need a Jr. Groomsman.....look at it this way
it is cheaper for you
Will it ruin your wedding day? Is she still coming?

you said you asked her if you can USE him in your wedding party.... i am confused
shouldn't the people in your wedding party mean alot to you and you want them in your party?

CaCRmr Posted: Jun 09, 2004 11:56 AM+

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Posted: Jun 09, 2004 11:56 AM

Re: 18 day from my wedding from my and my aunt pull this @$#@

You don't need this so close to the wedding. Hugs Hugs Hugs

dm24angel Posted: Jun 09, 2004 08:25 PM+

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Posted: Jun 09, 2004 08:25 PM

Re: 18 day from my wedding from my and my aunt pull this @$#@

Sorry!!!

I just dont get people, how they can act so selfish and mean sometimes...your better off in the long run....no negative feelings hindering your day I guess? Sorry no real advice...just hang in there!

Leoane Posted: Jun 09, 2004 10:00 PM+

Leoane MEMBER SINCE: 1/04 TOTAL POSTS : 293 WEDDING DATE: Mar 25, 2007

Posted: Jun 09, 2004 10:00 PM