tipping-specific questions

1) Priest and Rabbi - We are actually paying them a fee for officiating the ceremony ($600 to the rabbi and $300 to the priest). Do we need to tip them? If so, how much?

2)Our band (Milestone) is an indepedent band. Should I still tip them? How much? Can I give extra to the keyboardist who is at the ceremony and cocktail hour?

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i can't help you with your questions, but I am curious what the answer is to the band question. We are also getting married at the Thatched Cottage and using Milestone. Aren't they great?!!!

I see you are getting married this weekend. COngratulations and best wishes!

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we gave the officiant a small tip...i think $25-$50 not really sure.
as for the band...i forgot what we gave them also, but i think it's a great idea to give the keyboardist a little extra...actually, i wish i had thought of that!

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thanks! anyone else?

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We're using Milestone as well and was wondering the same thing about tipping. Just wondering, what makes you think they're independent, we thought they were part of Body Heat Productions.

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I never knew them as part of Body Heat productions. When I call their number, their answering machine says Milestone. I never spoke to anyone besides the group's leader. However, my wedding was yesterday and I did not tip them , but that was because I was very disappointed - I actually had their envelope with me (don't worry, they sound beautiful). I will write a full review when I get back from my honeymoon.

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we are feeding the band that is their tip
as for the officiant we arent sure yet - she is being so much help we arent sure what would be a sufficient tip