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neesiepie Posted: Feb 13, 2004 05:58 PM+
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Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

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Charly Posted: Feb 13, 2004 06:09 PM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

IWe are staying in a standard room in the Garden City Hotel. For me, after such a special day - I wouldn't want to go home like every other night. JMO
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MCDO15 Posted: Feb 13, 2004 06:11 PM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

you don't wanna go home!!!
(i don't at least )

Go some place nice so that the experiance contiunes...

your always gonna go home, so for that night, shell at an extra few bucks and go for it

We are staying at fox hollow
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SteffieSunshine1 Posted: Feb 13, 2004 06:50 PM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

It's a special night! Stay somewhere special.

We are staying at the Inn at Fox Hollow that night.
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yabbobay Posted: Feb 13, 2004 06:52 PM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

is it his parents house? then NO WAY!!!!

if this is where you are going to be making a home...I would say OK...but why not get the treatment at a hotel?
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ThongLori Posted: Feb 13, 2004 07:43 PM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

treat yourself to the hotel, girl! do it up right!
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fabala Posted: Feb 13, 2004 08:00 PM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

i would treat yourselves to the hotel. have fun, it's your wedding night.
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DecBride04 Posted: Feb 13, 2004 09:27 PM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

We are going home to our own bed. We dont even lived close to our reception site, but have a town car taking us through the limo company. why spend $$ you don't have to. It is the same privacy, but with all your own belongings...
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Jen_n_Dale Posted: Feb 13, 2004 09:33 PM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

We are staying home. Why pay all that money when you will be getting there late and have to be up early the next day for your honeymoon. I rather save it. JMO.
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jennbaby Posted: Feb 13, 2004 09:33 PM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?


Posted by SteffieSunshine1

It's a special night! Stay somewhere special.



i agree
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RobsBuba Posted: Feb 13, 2004 09:34 PM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

Still debating on this. We have our own house so we do have the privacy, but IMO it won't feel like our wedding night at home. I can see it now...me going on LIW and him going to playstation
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darly Posted: Feb 13, 2004 11:21 PM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

We live pretty close too but are goign to stay out that night...why not!?
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sun86moon Posted: Feb 13, 2004 11:25 PM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

We are staying out especially because we are going on honeymoon later on, several months later!
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MrHostility Posted: Feb 13, 2004 11:28 PM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

Stay in a hotel...but tell me what ones are around there because I need one too!

I know courtyard Marriot is there...just wondering if there is anything less pricey.
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Jo Ann Posted: Feb 14, 2004 02:00 AM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

I think the only problem with staying at the house is if they get prepared for the wedding there. You know what your house looks like after rushing to get ready and running out the door everything is all over the place in the bedroom, the bathroom has stuff all over the place, at least that is what my place looks like when ever I end up going someplace nice.

I just want to go back and relax and not worry about straighting things up afterwards.

IF no one is going to be getting ready there then I think it is a good idea and save the $$ for the HM.
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LIPrincess00 Posted: Feb 14, 2004 10:06 AM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

We are going to our own place. We have to get up about 4am to leave for our HM so why pay for a room for a few hours. JMO
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OctGroom Posted: Feb 14, 2004 10:14 AM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

Only if the budget will not allow it, if it does... DEFINITELY stay in hotel. there's no reason to go home.. like the others said.. contniue this experience. It'll be like no other night.
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Jenny5150 Posted: Feb 14, 2004 10:20 AM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

We went back to our house. I didn't need the added pressure of packing an overnight bag. We just wanted to be in the comfort of our own bed and with our pooches.
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divabride Posted: Feb 14, 2004 10:21 AM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

Im going against all odds and saying stay at home. I've asked every one of my friends who has gotten married and they all say it isnt worth it. They all said by the time they got to the room, they counted all their money and went to bed. Plus after such a long night, I would want to be in my own bed.
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janwinterbridejoy Posted: Feb 14, 2004 10:42 AM+
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Re: Fiance lives down the road from reception hall.Should we go 'home' on our wedding night or stay in a hotel?

i can agree with both sides on this issue. i stayed at the marriott and they upgarded me to a suite and it was lovely and all with breakfast and bed. but i also can see just wanting to spend the first night as husband and wife in your own bed. its all personal choice and if you think the extra expense is worth it.
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