If his family tells me 1-more-time,,,,'wait it goes fast, and come january it's down hill with stress...oh and even better.....

Don't worry come the summer you will be overwhelmed with stress and will lose weight

I was not planning on losing a ton (nor do I have a ton to lose)

Plus I am not a stressing person. Do they say these things to try to feel involved. I don't get it????

Re: If his family tells me 1-more-time,,,,'wait it goes fast, and come january it's down hill with stress...oh and even better.....

I don't know why people do that Jen. I think in some ways they are jealous or something.

Re: If his family tells me 1-more-time,,,,'wait it goes fast, and come january it's down hill with stress...oh and even better.....

the best is when divorced people tell you are how to plan a wedding and how to have a marriage

Re: If his family tells me 1-more-time,,,,'wait it goes fast, and come january it's down hill with stress...oh and even better.....

haha, yeah! I recently been getting so much advice from couple whose relationships are on the rocks as well as divorced people.


Yes, it is just people trying to give advice from their perspective. Its your decision to take it or not.

Re: If his family tells me 1-more-time,,,,'wait it goes fast, and come january it's down hill with stress...oh and even better.....

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Posted by casg

the best is when divorced people tell you are how to plan a wedding and how to have a marriage

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or when they say, I hope you have a better marraige then we did

Your future IL's may think they are being supportive but lacking in execution.

Re: If his family tells me 1-more-time,,,,'wait it goes fast, and come january it's down hill with stress...oh and even better.....

yeah I like the 'another one bites the dust I hear.'

but I'd take that over the people who make it so much more stressful than it needs be.

Re: If his family tells me 1-more-time,,,,'wait it goes fast, and come january it's down hill with stress...oh and even better.....

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Posted by casg

the best is when divorced people tell you are how to plan a wedding and how to have a marriage

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too true!!